Time for blogging is often hard to find. Most posts are begun on one day and finished some other, and usually it’s for the best. I started this post yesterday, and it got a bit gummed up. Nineteen hours and one Kris Berg post later, and I’m good to go. And there are important things happening in real estate, but sorry Greg, there are no big thoughts in this post. This is simply my entry for the Dumbest Post of the Week category.
Kris uses chicken soup, my unlikely source of inspiration and motivation comes from rugby. Yes rugby. That is the sport of kings, isn’t it? Well then, it’s the sport of titans.
I discovered rugby last Sunday and now that I know the truth, and I’ll step up and say it- rugby is the greatest sport invented. I don’t know the rules. I don’t know the terminology. I don’t know the teams or the players, but sitting in front of the big plasma TV, none of that matters one bit. Here’s what I see: Two teams of grown men completely driven to play a sport that is both brutal and strategic, physical and mental, dependent on both teamwork and individual skills, and requiring both tactical knowledge and gut instincts. And it is beautiful to watch.
There is a ball, of sorts. It’s thrown, kicked, pitched, or carried toward a goal. Players get tackled and men often pile on top of the ball. In a football game that would be where the play ends. In rugby? I don’t know what happens. Sometimes the play ends but often, just when you think it’s over, you are waiting to hear a whistle. You wait for a referee. You wait for the players to unpile themselves and…It doesn’t happen. Seconds pass. What is going on in that pile? Where’s the whistle? Where’s the ball? You are waiting, willing something to happen. Then, from the bottom of the mound of players, the ball comes flying forth to be kicked or pitched or carried forward once more! It’s such thrilling madness! Who would play such a sport? What would motivate grown men to participate in such an intense spectacle of sheer aggressive determination? Oh. Um…I’ll take a stab at that.
I may not know the rules, the strategy, or the terminology of rugby, but the entire thing seems very similar to real estate. Indulge me a moment. All the prep work, all the training, all the experience- every single day we are living, eating, and breathing real estate, until the time comes when you take everything you know to the table and use it to keep a contract together: Teamwork and strategy, both tactical knowledge and gut instincts. It’s typically not a battle, but there are times when it looks like everything has piled on top of a contract and the deal has ended. But just then something unpredictable happens and now we are going forward again. And regardless of how difficult it may have been, no matter how much blood sweat and tears you shed to hold everything together, the very moment that you leave a successful closing, you get into your car and reflect on the thrilling madness of it all and can’t wait to do it all again. It’s rugby. And it’s real estate.
So now I’m a rugby fan. I’ve done some research and New Zealand is the odds-on favorite. Here’s a diary entry from the All Blacks’ Dan Carter “Dear Diary, my alarms woke me up this morning at 8am. I’m a bit paranoid that I’m going to miss a meeting or somewhere I’m meant to be so I set two alarms. I haven’t missed anything for a couple of years so it’s working.” That is a man who is completely dedicated to what he does. How can you not be inspired by that?
Think what you will, watching rugby motivates me to work harder, reach deeper, push farther today than yesterday. But if you got something better, I’d certainly like to hear it.
And thanks Kris, now I can get back to work.
David G says:
Now you’re talking my language, Lani! If you haven’t picked a side yet, I humbly request that you consider screaming for South Africa. We whipped England’s ass on Friday (36-0) and stand a really good chance of taking it all the way. Of course I’ll understand if you cheer for USA against SA when we play on 9/30 but I’d encourage you not to bet on that game (at least not against SA.)
September 18, 2007 — 2:26 pm
David G says:
Sorry, TERI – no idea why I thought Lani had posted this.
September 18, 2007 — 2:27 pm
Kris Berg says:
Teri – Nice try, but I’m still in the lead. 🙂
September 18, 2007 — 2:44 pm
Patrick Hake says:
I played rugby in college and it is every bit as frenetic as you describe it.
Believe it or not there is a method to the madness, but I will not bore you with the details.
It does relate to real estate in that to be successful we must be well balanced in our strengths.
Every player on a rugby team must be strong, fast, tough and above all fit. Endurance and toughness are two key attributes that good ruggers must possess. I believe this is true for Realtors as well.
Unlike most American sports, there are no time outs in Rugby and there are no breaks between plays. There are two 40 minute halves of non stop action. No time to catch your breath, no time to talk with the coach on the sideline. It is an absolutely exhausting endeavor.
Unlike most American jobs there are no weekends, holidays or 8 hour work days in real estate. Being self employed allows for a flexible schedule. Unfortunately, it also allows for your work week to expand to 6 or 7 days and 60 to 70 hours a week. To be a successful Realtor you need toughness and endurance as well.
I am happy to here that someone else is following the Rugby World Cup. I had the chance to watch some of the American Eagles players up close, when we played against Cal Berkley. They seemed unstoppable.
It is amazing that only the best of the best American players make the national team, yet New Zealand, Australia, South Africa and England consistently out play them.
September 18, 2007 — 2:58 pm
Teri Lussier says:
David- No worries. Yes! I watched SA beat the tar out of England. Very exciting! I’m completely hooked on this sport. I thought hockey was fast, I love watching World Cup soccer, but this is an incredible game. And I would root for the US, but never bet on them- unless it’s basketball.
September 18, 2007 — 5:17 pm
Teri Lussier says:
Kris- 😉
September 18, 2007 — 5:21 pm
Teri Lussier says:
Patrick- Thank you for that comment. I’m glad I’m not the only one who sees the similarities.
And any sport that you watch cold, that is not knowing any of the rules, and still find yourself screaming at the TV, is a damn good sport.
September 18, 2007 — 5:28 pm
Toby & Sadie says:
Teri – If you want to see some rugby action live, contact the University of Dayton. I know that Ohio Wesleyan has a women’s rugby team and they were at Dayton two weeks ago and Xavier this past weekend for a tournament. I used to watch it and Australian Rules Football late at night on the old dish. But, I took in several games when I was at OWU and loved it! Best thing is that they love having fans there and while is usually a club sport these kids take it down right seriously. – Toby
September 23, 2007 — 6:01 pm